Relations /curtailed freedom?

Was just thinking about relations.Relations lose their meaning if freedom is not provided to people involved and thus becomes a forced bond.But if self felt limits/imposed limits are not there then it becomes a case of laissez faire .Now how many people feel need to impose limits for self?In fact this ability to feel need to control self lacks in majority of people because of nature,worldly stimulations,tensions,and desires etc.So they keep crossing limits of relation in absence of external control thereby breaking it in fact though not formally.

Hence rules are imposed by person in power to keep the relation going on.But it brings passive aggression in the other person.Whether or not he/she shows it expressly,it is always there :)

Now if freedom is given even then it is difficult ,if it is not given even then it is hard :)
If freedom is there ,relations can not survive the way Osho's commune reflect and if it is there,it shall becomes laissez faire for sure .
Thus freedom is curtailed to keep relations going,creating stereotypes in the long run to keep relation/organised societyin existence.

When I see people around me i find that throughout life people keep on struggling over this issue .They hate each other still their needs make them live together.It is nothing else and precious life is lost this way.
Do we have a solution for the world in this respect -man/woman,parent/children,individual/society,employer/employee relations?
No :)
Until and unless one has time ,intention and ability to feel need to set limits for self ,one can not understand the truth explained above.